Sometimes, just one question is enough to trigger hostilities. Here are the ten questions to avoid if you do not want to hurt your relationship.
1 . Am I BIG IN THIS DRESS?
It is one of the least glamorous phrases that a woman can pronounce in front of her man. Imagine for a second that he answers: “Yes, it’s true that you look pregnant dressed like that! “. Ouch, it hurts. So, we forget about this question and we remember that in a couple, we must always ensure that there is a part of sensuality and mystery …
2. WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT?
The absent look of your boyfriend leaves you perplexed? Know that, unlike women, men do not spend their time chatting with themselves, hence their invariable answer to your question: “Nothing! “. And that’s the truth! If you want to know your man’s thoughts, target your question more precisely. For example: “What do you think of …? “.
3 . IF YOU COULD EMBRACE ONE OF MY FRIENDS, WHAT WOULD YOU CHOOSE?
This is the question that annoys. No matter what she says, she will not satisfy you. If his face suddenly lights up and that -comble of the misfortune- he dares to give you an answer, even several, it is because he has already studied the question … Ouch! Or worse, if he begins to think seriously, it means that he puts you on the same level as other girls.
4. How many kids did you want
Want to see your beloved and tender run away from you and never respond to your messages? No ? So, we quickly forget this question and relax. At least, the first moments of the relationship. Why scare the man with such questions? For the moment, enjoy the moment. You will soon realize that he wants to be a baby … No need to put pressure on him.
5. IF I DENCEED BY A CAR, SHOULD YOU WAIT FOR HOW MUCH TIME BEFORE YOU COME OUT WITH A GIRL?
With this question, it’s the beginning of hostilities … and there can be no honest answers. Why ? Because we all feel irreplaceable and can barely imagine his man in the arms of another-horror show! -. We immediately want to hear the famous phrase: “I could never live without you”. Yes, but … imagine that he can answer that question.
6. DOES IT NECESSARY IF I COME AT YOUR PARTY “BETWEEN MECS”?
Red alert! If you want to pass for the girlfriend “pot of glue” is the solution to adopt … However, if the label of the girl “ultra-cool and without headache” attracts you then, avoid sticking your man at all costs. The outings/parties between guys are ideal for him because they will allow him to bloom alone and to “breathe”. And between us, it would not be strange to see your guy come on a shopping spree or one of your “Sex & the City” parties?
7.HAVE YOU FOUND THIS GIRL PRETTY?
Why at all costs want to create problems where there are none? First, asking this question suggests low self-esteem and that is not very sexy. Second, remember that he is with you and not with her. So, no need to panic as soon as a pretty girl crosses his eyes. It is with you that he is, so it is you who please him!
8.HAVE YOU HAD FREQUENTLY HOW MANY GIRLS BEFORE ME?
Do you really want to know the exact number of his female conquests? What will this bring you? Nothing really positive. And then your man is also entitled to his secret garden. By not revealing anything about his past love your man may simply want to draw a line on his ex, just to live your relationship fully, no ?!
9.DO YOU PREFER YOUR MOTHER OR ME?
Let it be clear in your mind: the love that unites him to you is totally different from the one that unites him to his mother. Like you, your man can love two people at once: his mother and his girlfriend. Without preference. But distinguishing all the same the two women of his life. Well yes, you love your father in the same way as your boyfriend, you ?!
10. DO YOU REALLY LOVE ME ?
Probably the most vexing of questions! To ask this man his question is to say, “I do not believe in your love,” and that puts a damper on morale. Okay, your guy does not repeat you as often as he likes most of you, but if you look good you will find small love affairs, like picking you up from the office, bringing you your favorite dessert or even you massively massage your feet.