When the couple communicates less, when one is a little in the fold, he rarely has the keys to know how to recreate the love link. However, reconnecting as in the beginning is fortunately possible when we agree to set up some reflexes
TWO CONDITIONS TO LOVE EVEN STRONGER THAN AT THE BEGINNING
Pink cheeks, butterflies in the belly, smiles galore, eyes that sparkle … The feelings shared at the beginning of a relationship are so pleasant to live that we must not give up thinking that we can not live again and again since we have been in a relationship for years! On the contrary! These sensations and feelings can be even stronger than at the beginning (the love state) since these strong bonds that have woven the years are there. So how to move to love with a great A while even our couple is a little lacking in breath right now? Reconnecting your couple is easy under two conditions: 1 / wanting it, 2 / understanding how a love connection works.
DARE THE VULNERABILITY
You are not insensitive and without need. You need to feel loved, appreciated, supported. Do not hide these needs. When we are in a relationship, we need to be able to rely on each other on a daily basis, whether it is a simple moral support or self-help. If you have fears, doubts, fears (on topics as varied as friendship, your relationship, work, a topic of society …), it is precisely all these topics that must be addressed, meditated, confront each other because they are the very heart of your personality. The reflex couple after some years is to hide behind a mask of insensitivity not to annoy the other or because we fear that he/she does not understand us. Or simply because we do not take the time to “trade true”. Yet the heart of a connection between two beings lies in our ability to express what drives us, scares us, makes us doubt, hurts, makes us happy.
“REVEALING YOUR ASPIRATIONS AT YOUR HALF A LITTLE EVERY DAY, ALLOWS YOU TO RECEIVE ITS ATTENTION. “
AND ALL GRIEVANCES FALL
Your partner feels useful, it has its place when you confide in this way. He seeks to understand or comfort you. The communication on subjects related to our own sensitivity is indispensable within a couple so that, regularly, the connection of being to be can be reestablished. One thus reconnects with the engines of life of the other. He has access to the very essence of his half and that is how the fluidity of a true exchange is restored. The control is dropped. Feelings are no longer rooted in mistrust or disappointed expectations. They are reborn thanks to these real exchanges. We know why we love each other!
REVEAL YOUR DEEP BEING FOR (RE) LOVE
It is essential to convey the very deep part of your personality to strongly seduce. “The real seduction, the one that triggers in the other emotion (and which is essential to prolong or revive this famous love state), lies in your ability to very regularly highlight the essence of what constitutes your engines of life, your fragilities, your sensibilities. Explains Florence Escaravage. Reveal your aspirations to your half, a little every day, to capture his attention. It is a proof of total confidence and it also allows him to provide the catch so that he/she can cling to you, understand you, admire you. The richness of your personality lies in your everyday experiences: your sensibilities on this day, your emotions on this event, your motivation to lead this project that is important to you, your perspective on this situation. Share what animates you is the best gift you can give him. Each person is unsuspectedly rich by what they see in their day, their thoughts about a beggar on the street, the blue of the sky today, or this video that made them laugh so much. The sharing of these riches is the secret of a couple that lasts because this sharing allows to connect to the new couple (who evolves every day) and to love the other through what it becomes, feels, through the way he matures, bumps into life, bounces …
THE LASTEST IN FOR A COUPLE ÉPANOUI
Re-enchanting your couple to find the sensations of the beginning is also a work that is done daily. These are the gestures, the attentions, the gifts, the tender words which, over the days, bring a little magic within the couple. Yes, but you have to be two, you say. It’s true, but one must re-initiate this magic by giving the other, even in periods of withdrawal, those little attentions which, spontaneously and unexpectedly, also give the other the desire to do so. to do the same. He/she is stopped, touched. And generally does not resist for a long time.