8- Never complain in an SMS
Under the influence of anger, you can be animated with a desire to send a bloody sms to your spouse. This is not a very good attitude because very often, he or she does not know what to answer. If, on the other hand, he or she decides to follow up on your text, it could cause a dispute between you. Even if the answer is tempered, you will be able to blame him/her for taking the question that lightly tempers your mind and thus frustrates it.
So it would be best to wait to see him/her , and talk to him/her calmly.